A message from a girl with social anxiety. HOPE.

A message from a girl ith social phobia
I'm a girl with social phobia.
I really was insecure about myself, and couldnt accept myself.
But now i know the reason why that was going on all the time.
My life wasn't perfect, I could compare myself to other's all day long.
I wasn't comfortable and relaxed around people, i was feeling judged, and not safe around people.
I'm really awkard, nervous and clumsy around people and i felt like i was making a fool of myself.
But people who really love me, wouldn't ever even think into that direction, they will take that the way it is, and they won't EVER... judge me on that.
Stupid people, whatever i should call those selfish people.. Would actually judge you on that, and are you worth to feel so over-think-able because of these sad silly's?
No. So just relax, and never lose hope that you will somehow feel relaxed around people someday.
And NEVER.. EVER.. blame yourself on the situation you got into because of social anxiety, you can't help that you feel unsafe around people, but one thing you should realise, is real people wouldn't judge you. And that is what you should believe.
And that day, that beautiful recovery, is coming your way.
It's not that difficult, it's true when you start to tell yourself all this.
i will write more messages on this website, to help everyone with social anxiety.
Because it's such a misery to be so unsure and to feel anxiety day and night.

I can believe this day by day more, and i will keep writing, because it helps myself, and i hope it helps you.

Much love,

Saskia Bloem. from the netherlands.